250. A Father's Wound

What happens when fathers must parent while carrying their own wounds? We explore the complex journey of men trying to be providers and protectors while dealing with personal trauma and societal expectations.

• Fatherhood comes with immense pressure to provide, protect, and nurture even when wounded
• Men often struggle with vulnerability, building walls instead of seeking help
• The lack of positive examples makes fathering particularly challenging for those who grew up without fathers
• Societal emphasis on financial success creates additional wounds for men trying their best to provide
• The power of healing comes through vulnerability, community support, and spiritual connection
• Even God the Father experienced wounds watching His Son on the cross, showing strength manifests in weakness
• Mental health concerns affect fathers but many don't seek help due to cultural expectations

If you're a father struggling with your own wounds while trying to parent, remember that seeking help isn't weakness—it's strength. Find community, open up to trusted supporters, and above all, connect with God as the ultimate source of healing.

Chapters

• 0:00 Fathering While Wounded
• 8:02 The Pressure of Being a Father
• 13:35 Growing Up With and Without Fathers
• 20:15 Men's Struggle With Vulnerability
• 25:29 Mental Health and Financial Expectations
• 32:47 Finding Strength in God's Power